How to know if your love one is there

Look at the kids
kids under 3 will be looking up or talking to someone who's not there
1 years will talk the most, because can't understand what they are saying any way
and you will see them laughing and talking with no one.

 It will be after the funeral give it about hour or two
but don't turn and look
look from the corner of your eye
take your time, if you need to close your eyes then open them
you will see like a white mist, some call it wings
but its a clear energy and your mind see what you need it to be.
You can no longer see it like kids and talk to it, because the world told you at an point of age its crazy for you to be talking to yourself. and that part of your brain just stop. but you can turn it back on. it take time. but the key is enter peace, kids don't care about color, hate, why someone look different, who god is or why someone talk different till a grow up tell them and teach them. everything we know is learn.
sometimes it good, and sometimes its bad.
At age 3 1/2 and 4 85% of the kids no longer talk to the forgotten & life move on.
before or After the funeral if you get cold, its because they are given you a hug. just close your eyes and trust and you will feel it. Then it will go away when they let go and you will no longer be cold.

So don't put on a show, they are there and you can say goodbye, but you must close your eyes and your heard of what going on around you and for the 1st time just feel and do nothing more.
 and that part of the brain you was told to turn off will turn on, if its just for a min.