The kitchen Witch

The Law of Attraction is the name given to the belief that “like attracts like” and that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts, one can bring about positive or negative result. This belief is based upon the idea that people and their thoughts are both made from pure energy, and the belief that like energy attracts like energy. The law of attraction states that we attract from the universe what we focus upon. The essence of what we think about, talk about, and picture the most is what is drawn to us. Our dreams also show, in symbols or literal images, what we are concentrating on.
http://www.kitchenwiccan.com/about-me/law-of-attraction-dream-dictionary/

Spiritual Bypass and Chi Sucking Vampires

As with all vision-states, one can become “addicted” to the inner adventure at the expense of healthy waking life. Psychologists call the unhealthy drive for ecstatic states “spiritual bypass,” and this concept may be at the root of the historically noted danger of falling in love with the spirits and nymphs of the inner world. After all, what ordinary and flawed human partner can compete with an alluring fantasy lover who comes only at night?

Sexual demons can reveal patterns in our romantic life, especially concerning how we give of ourselves. Repeated encounters with “sexual vampires” who seem to suck up inner resources or willpower may be reflective of an unhealthy sexual pattern in waking life. This encounter illustrates a “leak” of life force that may be unsustainable.

Not being able to stop the sexual advances of a night demon may be indicative of difficulties in drawing firm boundaries or deciding who is allowed to “enter your sphere.” Of course, these visions of energy imbalance (of chi-sucking and demon rape) can work for any gender, depending on character and personal history.

In spite of these dangers, rest assured that in the 21st century no one will condemn you in a court of law for having intercourse with a night elf or a water pixie.

http://dreamstudies.org/2010/06/25/succubus-and-supernatural-assault/

Positive Sexual Encounters in SP/HH

some sexual SP/HH encounters are not necessarily unpleasant.  For dreamers who do not have a traumatized past, sexual play during hypnagogic hallucinations can be healthy and exciting. This was brought to my attention when one reader from my website admitted that he cherishes the ephemeral spirits who approach him at night.  He reports excitement, pleasure, and mental orgasms during his SP-induced hallucinations.  He does not seek these escapades but does not seem to mind too much, even though he admits it somewhat weird that the “spirit” sometimes is not altogether human.

In the book Dark Intrusions, Louis Proud also has collected reports of spectral sex that are erotic, albeit deeply weird. As with lucid dreaming, sensuality can be safely explored in this private mental arena.

I don’t treat these experiences like a “fantasy world,” however. There are always psychological repercussions to any act, thought, or way of being.  Also, as with lucid dreaming and waking life, these encounters can be more pleasurable if they are not goal-oriented, but rather based on intimacy and consensual action. If the encounter gets too weird, or compromises your safe boundaries, you can always wake up from sleep paralysis by trying to move your finger or scrunching up your face like you taste something sour–this breaks the REM paralysis

http://dreamstudies.org/2010/06/25/succubus-and-supernatural-assault/